What are some bad first date ideas? Is it a good idea to take her to a family gathering or a family reunion? What about a wedding as your first date? These places can be awkward and we will tell you why. We work with a lot of clients in the Culver City and Westwood areas, as that is where our office is, and just recently, we had a woman tell us her date took her to a wedding as first date. Whoa…that is too much too soon. Or a holiday gathering is too much for a first date….Oh, and what do you get someone for a gift when you barely know each other?