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Dating Tip of The Week

September 2, 2015

Dating Tip of the Week:

Ladies, which text messages would you rather receive from a man?

Scenario #1: Him: Hi, how are you? I had a great time on Friday night.
You: Me, too. What a great restaurant. Thanks so much for dinner.
Him: My pleasure. Yeah, it was fun.
You: Yes, it was.
Him: What are you doing this weekend?
You: I’m not doing much. You?
Him: Working out, not sure yet. Hanging out with friends.
You: Oh, cool. Sounds relaxing.
(and he goes on and on with no purpose and doesn’t ask you out)

Scenario #2:
Him: Hi, how are you? I had a great time on Friday night.
You: Me, too. What a great restaurant. Thanks so much for dinner.
Him: My pleasure. I’d love to take you out again. I know you like Italian food. I know a great hole in the wall with the best house wine. It’s called Antonio’s Restaurant. How about Tuesday or Wednesday night at 7?
You: That sounds great. Tuesday at 7 it is. Looking forward to it 🙂

Him: Awesome. Goodnight! Can’t wait to see you on Tuesday.
(and women love men who take action. Ask her out after a couple of texts. Not all this nonsense texting around with no purpose. You are wasting her time. Be aggressive and ask her out already).

Oftentimes, she might have had a neutral or positive time on the date. That’s when he should ask her out again within 2 days to move the dating process along. Women do a lot of waiting around for men to take the lead. The biggest complaint we get from single women out there is that the men are texting and having conversations back and forth with no real purpose. He doesn’t ask her out, even after she’s given him a hint that she is interested.

So, guys, next time you are interested in someone, after a couple of text exchanges, you need to ask her out with a place and date and time in mind. Don’t say, “Let’s hang out.” Say, “I want to take you out on Friday at 7pm to the Warehouse Restaurant.” Being specific is good, because now she knows what to wear and has something to look forward to.

This tip applies to online dating as well. Don’t waste time emailing back and forth when you can ask her for her number to call her and feel her out over the phone. If you like her, make plans and ask her out. Don’t hang up and then call again later to chat. This tip works when you are emailing, too. For example, when you email back and forth and you are really diggin’ the conversation, you are building this fantasy in your mind of who he or she is. It usually never measures up when you meet them in person. So, instead of building this wild fantasy in your head about what he or she is like, just meet them face to face to see if there is a connection. By doing this, you are going to enjoy the dating process more.

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